Sunday, March 29, 2009
Adventures in Potty Training
For past few months, I’ve felt the pressing need to potty train Tommy since we both seemed very ready for this next big step. I asked around for potty training tips and heard lots of praises about a 3-day potty training program. A few of my friends and acquaintances used it with great success on their 2 year olds, so it sounded good to me. I really liked the idea of dedicating a short block of time to get it all out of the way at once instead of dragging the experience out a little at a time over a few months. So I set aside this weekend to do this program. Here’s how it went:
I got Tommy up at his regular time of 7:00am and took his nighttime diaper off and announced that today he would learn how to use the potty like a big boy and he would get to wear underwear like big boys wear. He seemed to like this idea. Then I told him it was time to throw away all of our old diapers since we wouldn’t need them anymore. He helped me put all his diapers into a garbage bag and we both put it in the trash (which I later retrieved because Ben still needs diapers...shhh!). Then it was time for breakfast and I started filling him up with drinks.
The rest of the day is a blur of accidents, pee, potty visits, juice, hyperactivity, and more accidents. I made the mistake that first day of giving Tommy too many sugary drinks and I paid dearly for it. One moment he was bouncing off the walls, the next he was curled up in a ball on me complaining that his tummy hurt. At nap time he wet completely through his clothes and sheets. Then he was up for more drinks, more accidents, and more potty visits. Then it was bedtime and I decided to see what would happen if he didn’t wear a diaper at night. Well, you can guess - he wet himself promptly when he woke up. I’m pretty sure he wets in the morning right before he fully wakes up, so there’s nothing he can do about it until he is biologically able to hold it. (On Friday he went through 25 pairs of underwear.)
The early part of this morning was very much like the previous day and I was feeling discouraged. However, everyone told me to NOT give up no matter how badly things seemed to be going, so I stuck with it. Over the next few hours, things got a little better. Now Tommy would announce every time he started wetting and we’d run off to the potty to finish up. This was improvement! He had a nice nap and even woke up dry! At night, I decided to put an overnight Pull-Up on him. He told me it was a diaper, but I said, “No, these are Big Boy Nighttime Undies!”. He seemed to accept that. (On Saturday he went through 22 pairs of underwear.)
This was a completely new day. All of our training seemed to suddenly click as soon as he woke up. He had NO accidents all day! He always told me when he had to pee, and when we rushed to the potty, he peed! It was amazing! He did wet during his nap, unfortunately. I think it’s just a mater of time before he learns to hold it when he sleeps during the day. Later in the evening we went out to dinner - we were out of the house for over an hour with no accidents! We had a few false alarm potty trips, but still made it home dry. (On Sunday he went through only 3 pairs of underwear.)
I think it’s safe to say that Tommy is mostly potty trained, after only 3 days. It will still take awhile before he is trained to go to the bathroom independently, but at least he’s out of diapers.